Car sex: 5 key positions to enjoy it!

Car sex remains a fantasy for many. According to an IFOP survey[1], 70% of men and 60% of women fantasise about having sex in a car.

However, this attraction is not driven by exhibitionist impulses. For most people, the fear of being caught is a real deterrent: the figure mentioned above falls to 27% for men and 15% for women when it comes to making love in a traffic jam. 

The excitement comes more from the transgression and the intimate bubble created by the car interior. 

This contrast between a confined space and the intensity of lovemaking stimulates libido like few other situations. The car becomes uncharted territory, far from the marital bed, requiring creativity and complicity to maximise pleasure. 

A successful car sex experience relies on preparation. Improvisation often leads to discomfort and can spoil the mood within minutes.

Choosing the right location is crucial for sex in a car. Forest tracks, deserted car parks or cul-de-sacs offer excellent cover. Darkness becomes your best ally: plan your intimate moments between 10 pm and 2 am to reduce the risk of passers-by. Also consider parking your vehicle facing the exit so you can leave quickly if necessary.

A car interior is clearly not designed for intimate encounters. To make the space comfortable, move the front seats as far back as possible and recline the backrest to around 45 degrees. The rear bench seat generally offers 130 to 150 cm of width, which is still ideal for lying down.

A few technical points to keep in mind:

The confined space of a vehicle means adapting your movements. Forget the classic missionary position, often impractical in these conditions. Car sex calls for flexibility and a touch of inventiveness. Here are the best options for making love in a car.

Perfect for getting started, oral pleasures such as oral sex are easy to enjoy in the passenger seat. The partner reclines their seat as far as possible, at an angle of around 90 degrees. It is the most discreet option in a vehicle. Mutual masturbation is also an excellent alternative for building arousal.

Ideal for confined spaces, this Kamasutra variation allows the woman to sit on top of the man. In the passenger seat reclined at 60 degrees, the partner controls the pace by bracing themselves against the edge of the seat. Be mindful of the steering wheel if you choose the driver's side.

On the rear bench seat, both lie on your sides. This position requires less than 50 cm of headroom, making it accessible in most vehicles. It encourages a gentle physical connection, reduces fatigue and lets you intertwine your legs easily.

One partner sits sideways on the rear bench seat, with their back against the door. The other sits on top, facing them. This arrangement makes use of the vehicle's width (around 1.40 m) and offers excellent freedom of movement for intense sensations.

If the interior is too cramped, make use of the outside of the vehicle parked in a private location. One partner braces themselves against the bonnet or boot. Make absolutely sure the handbrake is firmly applied to prevent the vehicle from rolling during sex in the car.

To intensify these car sex experiences, incorporating accessories can make all the difference. In a confined space where movement is limited, ONY’s Pulse One cock ring can significantly prolong pleasure. Its targeted vibrations amplify sensations for both partners and can transform a simple encounter into a truly sensory experience.

Having sex in a car involves responsibilities that should not be overlooked. Accidents do happen, as illustrated by this French woman who was fined in Switzerland for performing “oral sex on the driver, who became distracted and had an accident”, reports Le Dauphiné. Adrenaline must never take precedence over the law or your safety.

French criminal law is clear regarding sexual exposure. Article 222-32 of the French Criminal Code states that sexual exposure in a place accessible to the public is punishable by one year in prison and a €15,000 fine. If your vehicle is parked on a public road and the act is visible, it is prohibited.

For safety, avoid all risks:

[1] IFOP study for Quotidien's “Summer Show”, broadcast on Friday 23 June at 11.20 pm on TF1. A sample of 2,011 people, representative of the French population aged 18 and over. The sample's representativeness was ensured using the quota method (sex, age, socio-professional category), after stratification by region and type of urban area. Interviews were conducted through a self-administered online questionnaire (CAWI – Computer Assisted Web Interviewing) from 15 to 16 June 2017.