November 25, 2025
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What women really think about male sex toys: they approve!
Masturbator, Cockring, P-spot stimulator...
What do women really think about these objects that promise to intensify their partner's pleasure?
ONY's investigation finally sheds light on this enigma.
Key takeaways:
- Women largely approve of male sex toys and perceive them as tools for pleasure and intimacy.
- The use of these accessories is not taboo; it's actually quite common, with 49% of French women having used a sex toy at some point in their lives. Even better, 69% of French women find that using a sex toy contributes to their sexual well-being.
- These toys help break the routine, intensify sensations and revitalize intimate life for couples.
- Are sex toys objects of pleasure reserved for single people? That's not what the figures say: 75% of women in relationships say they are ready to use a sex toy, according to Le Figaro .
Women's views on sex toys in general
Long relegated to the shadows of taboo, sex toys have gradually found their place in discussions and practices. Numerous studies clearly demonstrate this.
The numbers speak for themselves!
Recent studies paint a picture of a reality far more open than some might have imagined. Far from being a fringe phenomenon, the use of sex toys is a common and popular practice. According to an IFOP study[1], nearly half of French women (49%) report having used an intimate accessory at least once in their lives. It's therefore not so surprising to one day stumble upon a phallic-shaped toy in your girlfriend's wardrobe!
Even more revealing:75% of French women currently in a relationship say they are ready to use a sex toy (or a new sex toy) to spice up their lovemaking or sexual games.
And yes, the benefits are tangible: two-thirds of users (65%) find that sex toys contribute to their sexual well-being. The idea that these pleasure objects are allies for a fulfilling sex life is therefore well established.
Testimonial: What do women think about sex toys for men?
When the topic of male sex toys comes up, women's responses are often tinged with benevolent curiosity. Are they perhaps more open-minded than men?
At first, I admit I was a little skeptical about masturbators. But I quickly realized that they made my partner more comfortable and confident. They even add a playful dimension to our intimacy. Frankly, I find it sexy and totally natural when I see him enjoying himself! And between us, it's also quite practical when I don't feel like it or when I'm away; he can pleasure himself.
Estelle recounts how she gave Exa One to her boyfriend a few months ago.
Far from being a sign of weakness or lack, the use of a male sex toy is often interpreted as proof of open-mindedness and simply a search for pleasure.
An advantage for the couple?
Overall, studies and testimonials reveal a predominantly positive, even enthusiastic, perception of male sex toys among women. Women often see these accessories as tools to break the routine and add a new dimension to shared pleasure.
They weren't wrong: masturbators, penis rings, and P-spot stimulators can intensify sensations and prolong moments of intimacy. Alone or with a partner!
The partner's initiative: a true catalyst for desire and complicity
For women, a man who dares to take the initiative in his relationship with sex toys is perceived as open, confident and keen to spice up their intimate life. Far from being a sign of weakness, this boldness actually makes him attractive.
This initiative can rekindle the flame, introduce novelty and break the routine.
How to broach the subject as a couple?
However, introducing male sex toys into the intimacy of a couple requires open and respectful communication. It's not about imposing, but about suggesting. Here are some suggestions for approaching the subject:
What if we tried it together?
Spark interest by suggesting that discovering new sensations together can be fun and exciting.
Make your moments even sexier!
Show that the goal is to strengthen intimacy and pleasure as a couple, by exploring new experiences together.
A little humor and above all, lots of fun!
Relax the atmosphere and make the proposition sexy by slipping in the idea of spicing up your intimate moments with a touch of novelty!
The extra solo touch
And yes, taking time for your personal desires can be a real asset to your relationship. Tell him that exploring each other on your own allows you to better share what excites you together.
FAQ: Frequently Asked Questions
What attracts women most to a man?
What makes a man attractive to a woman is shrouded in mystery... But one quality consistently emerges in the accounts. Indeed, a man is attractive to women when he demonstrates independence, autonomy, and self-confidence.
A man who dares to explore his desires, who takes an interest in his own body and pleasure without inhibition, exudes an irresistible aura of confidence. It is this ability to be fulfilled on his own, while also knowing how to enrich a relationship , that is truly seductive.
To be specific: a man who knows his body and knows how to masturbate properly is a free man — and that's exactly what women notice.
Do women use sex toys more than men?
Contrary to popular belief, women are not the ones who use sex toys the most.
Men are slightly ahead, with 49% of users compared to 47% of women.
So gentlemen, don't be left behind: it's time to take the plunge and treat yourself to a sex toy!
Are sex toys only for single men?
Of course not! This misconception deserves to be dispelled once and for all. Male sex toys have their place in both single life and the intimacy of a couple . The data confirms this: use by couples even surpasses solo use (45% versus 29%, according to La Dépêche , citing an IFOP study).
How to broach the subject of sex toys with your partner?
Bringing up this subject requires tact, but nothing insurmountable. Start by exploring your partner's desires through general conversations about sexuality and self-discovery.
Explain that you want to explore something new together to spice up your intimate moments, not because there's anything wrong in your relationship. Listen to her reactions, respect any reservations she may have, and give her time to consider the idea.
With patience and kindness, a timid curiosity can become a real desire to explore together.
The editorial staff
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[1] IFOP study dating from 2017 for dorcelstore.com. The survey was conducted with a representative sample of 2,012 people, representative of the metropolitan population aged 18 to 69 years.
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