06 November 2025
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How to choose a male masturbator? [2026 Guide]
The male sexual wellness sector is booming! Gone are the days when these accessories were pushed to the sidelines.
Today, choosing a masturbator is becoming almost second nature, much like investing in any other everyday product. But to make the right choice, it's best to first understand what these pleasure devices can truly offer you.
Choosing the right masturbator: what you need to know
The masturbator enhances and diversifies sensations compared to using your hand.
Several types exist: realistic, textured, or tech-driven.
The material and texture directly influence comfort and pleasure.
The ergonomics must suit your body shape and your usage.
To choose well, it's essential to define your expectations, your budget and your experience level before buying.
What is a male masturbator?
The masturbator goes far beyond a simple sex toy for men: it works as a genuine simulator designed to intensify and reinvent sensations. Unlike your hand, these devices feature a textured internal sleeve, typically made from soft silicone or TPE (Thermo-Plastic Elastomer).
The idea? To recreate the natural softness of mucous membranes while adding a variety of textures impossible to replicate by hand: ridges, grooves, spirals. Models range from simple textured sleeves to high-tech devices combining vibration, suction and heat.
The masturbator is sometimes distinguished from the manual sleeve primarily by its mode of action: the masturbator is mechanical, while the sleeve is 100% manual.
According to a study cited by Le Monde, more than 1 in 2 French people have already used a pleasure toy. The mainstream shift is well and truly underway!
Why incorporate a masturbator into your solo or couples' play sessions?
Using an intimate toy isn't about filling a void. It's more like upgrading from an old cathode-ray TV to a 4K screen: you discover nuances you never knew existed. These accessories allow you to explore new areas of sensitivity, modulate intensity and work on your stamina.
At ONY, we hold one firm belief: male pleasure deserves to be celebrated without shame. Treating yourself to a quality accessory means acknowledging that your intimate fulfilment matters. It's about transforming a often rushed routine into a genuine sensory journey.
And a health bonus: research conducted by Harvard University suggests that frequent ejaculation (at least 21 times per month) could reduce the risk of prostate cancer. In summary, men with regular ejaculatory activity — between 4.6 and 7 times per week — showed a 36% reduced risk of developing prostate cancer before the age of 70, compared to those whose frequency was below 2.3 times per week.
The essential criteria for finding your perfect masturbator
With so many options available, choosing your masturbator can feel overwhelming. Don't worry! A few simple criteria will help you see things more clearly and find your perfect match.
Types of stimulation: realism, discretion, and a feast of sensations!
First step: define the type of experience you're looking for. Three main categories stand out:
Anatomical realism
These models faithfully replicate the look and feel of different parts of the human body (mouth, vagina, anus). Perfect if you want to recreate an authentic penetration experience.
Creative textured stimulation
Here, the inner sleeve features inventive geometries (spirals, honeycomb cells, waves) that bear no resemblance to anything natural but deliver entirely unique sensations.
Active technology
These automatic devices are anything but passive. They vibrate, suction, or heat to create a stimulation your hands could never match. Also according to Le Monde, 17% of Americans had already used a vibrating sex toy in a study published in 2019.
Material and texture: the art of touch for tailor-made pleasure
The material determines everything: comfort, hygiene, durability. Here's a practical guide:
Feature |
Silicone |
TPE |
|---|---|---|
Touch |
Soft, silky, durable |
Ultra-realistic, supple, "fleshy" |
Porosity |
Non-porous |
Porous |
Durability |
Excellent (several years) |
Fair (fragile if poorly maintained) |
Compatibility |
All lubricants except silicone |
Water-based lubricant only |
Budget |
Higher |
More accessible |
As for the internal texture, it's a matter of personal taste. Pronounced ridges deliver intense stimulation, while smoother surfaces suit men who are more sensitive or prefer to take their time.
Size, shape and ergonomics: a perfect fit for your individuality
Ergonomics matter more than you'd think. The size of the inner canal must match your anatomy to avoid excessive compression or a lack of friction. Fortunately, many models are stretchy.
The outer shape influences your comfort during use. A rigid "shell" design makes it easy to grip and protects the inner sleeve. A flexible model lets you adjust the pressure directly with your fingers. Also think about your environment: do you need a discreet object that blends into a drawer, or are you happy with a futuristic design?
Exa One by ONY: the technological feat that takes care of everything!
If you're looking for the pinnacle of automation, the Exa One represents the ultimate in sextech craftsmanship. This powerhouse of technology was designed for those who refuse to compromise between performance and elegance.
Its strength? Exceptional versatility with 9 rotation modes and 9 thrusting modes. This diversity of movements allows you to experience different ultra-realistic suction sensations: from a gentle sensual caress to breathtaking intensity! Its refined design and premium materials turn every session into a unique experience.
Conclusion: your pleasure deserves an informed and confident choice!
Choosing a masturbator is about so much more than a purchase: it's a statement. Take the time to compare, analyse the materials and define your budget. Quality comes at a price, but the return on investment in terms of sensory discovery and wellbeing is priceless… Don't be afraid to explore, try different textures and vary your pleasures. Your intimacy is a playground without limits, and the masturbator can become your greatest ally in this adventure. Stay curious, stay discerning, and above all, enjoy!
Beyond the technical aspect, using a masturbator contributes to a positive sexuality. It's an excellent way to release stress through the release of endorphins and oxytocin. By exploring your body with sophisticated tools, you develop a deeper understanding of your own pleasure mechanisms.
This greater self-knowledge can considerably enrich your relationships with a partner. Embracing assisted masturbation means allowing yourself a fulfilling sexuality, free from guilt, while taking care of your mental and physical health.
Frequently asked questions about choosing a masturbator
What's the ideal toy to start with?
If this is your first toy, ONY recommends keeping it simple rather than investing straight away in a device with a more complex mechanism.
The ideal starting point? A manual sleeve with a compact sheath (such as the Nomad or Pure 2 from ONY). These products offer several advantages:
Controlled budget: They let you test whether textured stimulation suits you without a major investment.
Total control: with a sleeve, you manage the pressure and speed with your hand, which is reassuring for first-time experiences.
Easy maintenance: Their simple structure (often reversible) makes cleaning straightforward.
Opt for an "balanced" internal texture — neither too aggressive nor too smooth — to discover a wide range of sensations. Once you're familiar with this new pleasure device, you can then move towards more sophisticated models such as vibrating or automatic ones.
Can you use a masturbator as a couple?
Absolutely! The masturbator isn't limited to solo moments. It can become an excellent accessory to enrich your relationship by introducing new dynamics: voyeurism, stimulation guided by your partner, role play.
Before use, please observe a few essential guidelines. First, make sure your partner is comfortable with the idea. Next, hygiene remains essential: standard cleaning is sufficient for personal use, but a condom is recommended if the toy is shared. Finally, remember lubrication to maintain comfort and sensation throughout the experience.
How to recognise a premium-quality masturbator?
The market offers many low-end products, but quality directly impacts your pleasure. A premium masturbator, like those from ONY, can be recognised by several criteria: safe materials (silicone or TPE certified phthalate-free, odourless and hypoallergenic), perfect finishes to prevent any irritation, and for electric models, reliable technology with a powerful, quiet motor offering at least 45 minutes of battery life.
Where to find your masturbator with complete discretion?
Buying a sex toy is sometimes a personal choice, and discretion is often preferred. Shopping online on specialist sites like ONY is the ideal option in that case. Confidentiality is guaranteed at every step: packaging and bank statement with no mention of the brand, option for collection point delivery… Online, you can calmly read the descriptions, check reviews and learn through guides, away from the looks or pressure you might feel in a shop.
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