22 February 2024

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Which object to use for masturbation? Explore new sensations of pleasure

Masturbation is an intimate tête-à-tête with your body and desires. Over time, however, this moment can become mechanical.

Did you know that men too can have a great time with a sex toy?

Using an object for masturbation will considerably intensify arousal and the sensations experienced. We reveal the best sex toys for men to awaken your pleasure…

The benefits of masturbation

Getting to know your body and your pleasure

Masturbation is the first step in learning about one's sexuality. Since every body functions differently, it is essential to understand for oneself what feels good in order to be able to guide one's partner. In addition to helping men and women become familiar with their G-spot, their P-spot or their clitoris, masturbation trains men to control and delay their ejaculation. Although the discovery of this practice generally occurs during adolescence or pre-adolescence, it remains beneficial throughout life.

A natural anxiety reliever

During a masturbation session, the body releases endorphins. These hormones are nicknamed the happiness hormones for good reason. They have anti-stress properties and produce a sense of pleasure and relaxation. This promotes falling asleep and improves sleep quality. If you struggle to fall asleep, try masturbation — a natural sleeping aid and anxiety reliever!

A natural painkiller

Endorphins do not only have relaxing benefits — they also have a pain-relieving effect. As a result, masturbation can help ease certain types of pain such as migraines, bloating and menstrual discomfort (cramps, breast tenderness and back pain).

A positive impact on health

Masturbation is a fully-fledged physical activity with the power to improve the cardiovascular system by strengthening the heart. Moreover, masturbating limits the accumulation of seminal fluid in the prostatic ducts. This has the effect of preventing prostate cancer, which is currently the most common cancer in men.

When should you use an object for masturbation?

Solo masturbation

The first good reason to buy an object for masturbation is to spice up your solo pleasure moments! As we have seen, touching yourself is an excellent way to get to know your body and feel good. Masturbation is particularly useful for reconnecting with your desires at your own pace after a breakup or a period of depression.

With their partner

According to a study[1], only 18% of women experience an orgasm during penetrative sex. It can therefore be interesting to reinvent one's sexuality through mutual masturbation. Using an object to masturbate your partner will strengthen the intimacy within the couple and enhance pleasure for both the woman and the man.

Cybersex

Cybersex refers to all sexual practices taking place on the internet: watching porn videos, online flirting, webcams, etc.

According to a study, only 18% of women experience an orgasm during penetrative sex.

Have you heard of teledildonics? This activity involves having sex at a distance via connected sex objects linked to an app: eggs, vibrators, etc.

Everyday objects VS sex toys

After gaining a wealth of sexual experience, it is not uncommon to feel a sense of boredom. Yet it is entirely possible to renew your fantasies and excitement by exploring new practices. Using an object to enhance pleasure is one of them. But which object for self-pleasure should you choose? Is it really essential to invest in a sex toy? Can any everyday object do the job?

Some people swear by everyday objects:

a cushion or the jet from a shower head to stimulate the clitoris;
a hairbrush handle or phallic-shaped vegetables for penetration;
a pearl necklace around the shaft to multiply sensations, etc.

Sex toys remain the most effective and safest solution for masturbation. They are designed to stimulate an erogenous zone (G-spot, P-spot, penis, testicles, clitoris…) by performing a specific action (vibration, suction, pressure, heat…). Contrary to popular belief, they are not exclusively reserved for women. More and more male sex toys are now available for men.

Sexy woman leaning against a chair in an apartment

How to choose the right sex toy?

Forget the aubergine and the hairbrush! Whether you are a woman or a man, the best object for masturbation is without a doubt the sex toy. Given the sheer variety of sex toys available in sex shops and online, choosing can sometimes feel overwhelming.

Before choosing your sex toy, ask yourself:

the erogenous zone you wish to stimulate: pleasure at the level of the penis, testicles, anus, perineum, prostate, etc.
the sensations you are looking for: pressure, suction, vibration, penetration, etc.

There are sex toys suited to solo masturbation or couples' play, as well as water-resistant sex toys if you want to enjoy yourself in the shower.

Bear in mind that not all objects for masturbation are equal. Make sure these products comply with European Union manufacturing and composition standards. Find out about their size and features, and favour pleasant materials (silicone), taking into account any allergies you or your partner may have.

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Finding an object for masturbation as a man

The sex doll

The sex doll, generally made from silicone, represents a life-size female body with all its orifices: mouth, vagina and anus. It is often used by single men who crave human affection. They can play with her breasts, kiss her and penetrate her in any position. However, as the sex doll is inanimate, it tends to put many people off. Furthermore, its large size means you cannot take it away on holiday with you.

The masturbation sleeve

The masturbation sleeve, also known as a masturbation sleeve or masturbator, is an artificial vagina that replicates the sensations of vaginal penetration by creating suction around the penis. Some premium models feature a vibrating mode, a heating function, as well as suction and oscillation modes; others have the appearance of a vulva complete with labia and clitoris.

The penis ring

The penis ring (or cockring), often used during sexual intercourse, can serve as an object for masturbation. It is a ring that encircles the shaft and/or the testicles. It strengthens erection and delays ejaculation. Its appeal is therefore primarily practical. Nevertheless, by masturbating with a vibrating ring, you will also heighten your pleasure. It is essential to choose a cockring suited to the size of your penis and not to wear it for more than 30 minutes.

The dildo

Like the plug, the dildo aims to provide anal pleasure. However, it is larger and wider than the plug. Its phallic shape, sometimes curved, is similar to the male sex organ. One of the most popular dildo models is the suction cup dildo, which attaches to a flat surface (floor, wall, chair, mirror, shower door). The user has both hands free and can adopt the position of their choice during penetration!

The anal bead chain

An anal bead chain is a silicone sex toy, made of glass or metal, consisting of small beads connected by a rod or string. These beads are inserted one after another. If you are new to this type of sex toy, we recommend using a flexible anal bead chain and not inserting all the beads. Many bead chains have a loop at their end, which makes removal easier.

The prostate massager

The prostate massager is nothing more and nothing less than a male vibrator that stimulates the P-spot through vibrations. To reach a prostatic orgasm, the man inserts the phallic object into his anus and activates the desired speed. Some vibrators are fitted with a penis ring to heighten sensations and sustain the erection.

The anal plug

The anal plug is an object for anal self-stimulation. It has a conical shape and a wide, flat base that prevents the suction effect. It slides in gently, preferably with lubricant. Once you have inserted this sex toy, you can manipulate it with back-and-forth movements or circular motions to stimulate the anal wall.

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ONY men's sex toys

The Pure masturbation sleeve

Looking for an object to masturbate with in the shower? ONY's Pure masturbation sleeve is a waterproof sex toy with a sleek and elegant design. It is easy to use and features dust protection. You will love its dynamic and natural suction, which will give you deeply intense orgasms.

In total, we offer 3 different masturbation sleeves:

the ribbed sleeve, replicating the sensations of vaginal penetration;
the beaded sleeve, replicating the sensations of anal penetration;
the combined sleeve (ribbed and beaded), replicating the sensations of oral penetration.

The Nomad masturbation sleeve

Discreet and compact, Nomad adapts perfectly to the modern lifestyle. This masturbation sleeve delivers realistic penetration sensations and adds a unique sensory dimension to the solo experience. Pleasure is always within reach with Nomad.

The Explo prostate massager

At ONY, we strive to meet every man's needs with sex toys suited to all types of pleasure. If you wish to explore your pleasure more deeply and anal penetration is part of your practices or something that appeals to you, our prostate massager Explo is made for you. This silicone vibrator delivers localised vibrations to 2 highly erogenous zones: the prostate and the perineum. In total, this sex toy for men features 9 vibration modes and 9 oscillation modes. It is water-resistant and can be controlled remotely using a remote control.

The Exa One automatic masturbator

Exa One pushes the limits of ecstasy with its 9 thrusting modes, 9 suction modes and 9 rotation modes. Each feature adds a new dimension and creates an immersive, captivating experience. Reach the seventh heaven with Exa One, a marvel of technology that defies belief.

The Pulse One vibrating cockring

Our silicone cockring will sustainably prolong your erection while intensifying your orgasm with its 10 vibration modes. It is an adjustable penis ring that fits perfectly to any penis size. Pulse One connects remotely and offers a total battery life of 70 minutes.

A man in underwear holding Authentic in his right hand

Precautions to take when using an object for masturbation

Avoid everyday objects

Everyday objects you find around the house are not suited to masturbation. They risk breaking, injuring you or getting stuck in your rectum due to the suction effect caused by the anus. If you are not planning to invest in a sex toy, the best option remains giving yourself pleasure with your fingers!

Cleaning your sex toy regularly

A sex toy should be washed with warm water and soap after each use. Cleaning is even more important when handling penetrative objects. A silicone-based sex toy has many advantages: it does not degrade and is very easy to clean.

To keep your toy in great condition, it is advisable to use a specialist cleaning product, such as ONY's Cleansing Foam. This foam not only ensures impeccable hygiene but also extends the lifespan of your toy.

Never leave a sex toy lying out in the open

Storing your sex toy in a dry place and away from light (cupboard, drawer, packaging box) protects it from dust and keeps it in good condition. If the object is made from plastic materials, exposure to sunlight or heat sources must be absolutely avoided. When subjected to high temperatures, plastic can release substances that are harmful to your body and your health.

Using lubricant

Whether electric or not, whether it generates heat, vibration, pressure, suction or penetration, a pleasure object is always more enjoyable when you use lubricant. Feel free to apply generously — there is never too much! Water-based lubricant is easy to clean, compatible with most sex toys, and works very well with silicone pleasure toys.

Being mindful of excessive use of sexual objects

The use of an object for masturbation should remain occasional. An obsessive relationship with a sex toy may be a sign of sexual addiction. Furthermore, a cockring should not be worn for more than 30 minutes at a time, in order to allow blood to circulate and prevent injury.

A man lubricating his Pure 2 masturbation sleeve

Never share your sex toy

In theory, an object for masturbation should not be shared. However, if during sexual intercourse you decide to share a sex toy that penetrates (dildo, anal plug, etc.), you will need to cover it with a condom; otherwise, bacteria present in the rectum could damage your partner's vaginal flora and expose you both to the risk of STIs.

Objects for masturbation: key takeaways

Rest assured, porn videos will never match the sensations of a good vibrator! Masturbating with an object changes the lives of both women and men! Forget the objects lying around your home and opt for a quality sex toy. Don't be afraid to venture towards hidden erogenous zones… The plug, the dildo and the vibrator are sex toys with the power to stimulate the prostate and trigger orgasms of tremendous intensity!

Lucile Tizon

Web writer

[1] Survey conducted in 2019 by Lelo

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