February 22, 2024

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Which masturbation aid should you choose? Explore new sensations of pleasure.

Masturbation is an intimate encounter with one's body and desires. However, over time, this moment can become mechanical.

Did you know that a man could also get his kicks with a sex toy?

Using a sex toy for masturbation will significantly intensify arousal and sensations. We reveal the best sex toys for men to awaken your pleasure…

The benefits of masturbation

Taming one's body and pleasure

Masturbation is the first step in learning about sexuality. Since every body functions differently, it's essential to understand for yourself what feels good in order to then guide your partner. In addition to helping men and women become familiar with their G-spot, P-spot, or clitoris , masturbation trains men to control and delay their ejaculation. Although this practice is generally discovered during adolescence or pre-adolescence, it remains beneficial throughout life.

A natural anxiolytic

During masturbation, the body releases endorphins . These hormones are often called "happy hormones" for a reason. They have stress-relieving properties and provide a feeling of pleasure and relaxation. This promotes sleep and improves sleep quality. If you have trouble falling asleep, try masturbation—a natural sleep aid and anxiolytic!

A natural pain reliever

Endorphins not only have relaxing benefits, but they also have an analgesic effect. Thus, masturbation can relieve certain types of pain such as migraines, bloating, and menstrual pain (cramps, breast and back pain).

A positive impact on health

Masturbation is a legitimate form of physical activity that can improve the cardiovascular system by strengthening the heart. Furthermore, masturbation limits the accumulation of seminal fluid in the prostatic ducts. This helps prevent prostate cancer, which is currently the most common cancer among men.

When is it appropriate to use an object for masturbation?

Solo masturbation

The first good reason to buy a masturbation aid is to spice up your moments of solitary pleasure! As we saw earlier, touching yourself is an excellent way to get to know yourself and feel good. Masturbation, in particular, allows you to reclaim your desires at your own pace after a breakup or a period of depression.

With his partner

According to a study[1], only 18% of women experience orgasm during penetrative sex. Therefore, it can be beneficial to reinvent one's sexuality through mutual masturbation. Using a sex toy to masturbate one's partner can strengthen intimacy within the couple and enhance pleasure for both the woman and the man.

Cybersex

Cybersex refers to all sexual practices taking place on the Internet: viewing pornographic videos, online flirtatious encounters, webcams, etc.

According to a study, only 18% of women experience orgasm during penetrative sex.

Are you familiar with teledidony? This activity involves having sex remotely using sex toys connected to an app: egg, vibrator, etc.

Everyday objects vs. sex toys

After gaining considerable sexual experience, it's not uncommon to feel a sense of weariness. However, it's entirely possible to renew your fantasies and arousal by trying new practices. Using an object for pleasure is one such practice. But which object should you choose for masturbation? Is it really necessary to invest in a sex toy? Will any object do?

Some people swear by everyday objects:

a cushion or the spray from the shower head to stimulate the clitoris;
a hairbrush handle or phallic-shaped vegetables for penetration;
a pearl necklace around the penis to intensify sensations tenfold, etc.

Sex toys remain the most effective and safest solution for masturbation. They are designed to stimulate an erogenous zone (G-spot, P-spot, penis, testicles, clitoris, etc.) by performing a specific action (vibration, suction, pressure, heat, etc.). Contrary to popular belief, they are not reserved solely for women. An increasing number of sex toys for men are now available.

Sexy woman standing on a chair in an apartment

How to choose the right sex toy?

Forget the eggplant and the hairbrush! Whether you're a woman or a man, the best object for masturbation is undoubtedly a sex toy. Due to the multitude of sex toys offered in sex shops and online, making a choice isn't always easy.

Before choosing your sex toy, ask yourself the following questions:

the erogenous zone you want to stimulate: pleasure at the level of the penis, testicles, anus, perineum, prostate, etc.
The sensations sought: pressure, suction, vibration, penetration, etc.

There are sex toys suitable for solo masturbation or couples' games, as well as waterproof sex toys if you want to have a good time in the shower.

Be aware that not all masturbation aids are created equal. Make sure these products comply with the manufacturing and composition standards outlined in the European Union specifications. Inquire about their size and features, and prioritize comfortable materials (such as silicone), taking into account any allergies you and/or your partner may have.

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Finding an object to masturbate with when you're a man

The sex doll

The sex doll, usually made of silicone, represents a life-size female body with all its orifices: mouth, vagina, and anus. It is often used by single men who crave human affection. They can play with its breasts, kiss it, and penetrate it in any position. However, because the sex doll is inanimate, it tends to put many people off. Furthermore, its large size makes it unsuitable for taking on vacation.

The vagina

A vaginette, also called a masturbation sleeve or masturbator , is an artificial vagina that replicates the sensations of vaginal penetration by suctioning the penis. Some high-end models feature a vibrating and heating mode, as well as suction and oscillation modes; others resemble a vulva with labia and a clitoris.

The penis ring

A penis ring (or cock ring ), often used during sexual intercourse, can also be used for masturbation. It's a ring that encircles the penis and/or testicles. It enhances erections and delays ejaculation . Its primary purpose is therefore practical. However, masturbating with a vibrating ring can also increase pleasure. It's essential to choose a cock ring that fits your penis size and not to wear it for more than 30 minutes.

Which masturbation aid should I choose?