"My first prostate orgasm": interview

Prostate-related pleasures have become increasingly popular in recent years. A finger in the anus? A black kiss during 69?

The French are no longer afraid to try these new sensations. But there's still a long way to go before mastering and controlling prostate stimulation and orgasm … Because while more and more men are hearing about it, this orgasm, inaccessible to some, requires a lot of practice and patience…

Meeting with Arthur*, a big fan of this practice.

Hello Arthur, could you briefly introduce yourself?

My name is Arthur, I'm 35 years old, and I'm from the Paris region. I've been married to Chloé for four years, and we now have a three-year-old child. I work as an accountant for a large international company, which I won't name.

How did you find out about ONY?

The first time was about a year ago on a well-known adult platform. Actually, I saw one of your commercials. I clicked on it and ended up on your website, which is very well done, by the way.

I then decided to order your P-spot stimulator, the Explo. A fantastic machine! After a few months of use, I emailed you to express my complete satisfaction with the product. Then you offered me this interview, which I accepted.

A couple on a bed next to the Explo P-spot stimulator

When did you first experience prostate problems?

I remember it like it was yesterday. I was taking a bath after a long day at work with my ex-girlfriend 8 or 9 years ago. We were both relaxing quietly.

Then, just for fun, she wanted to tease my crotch with her finger. At first, I was surprised and jumped a little, but with a smile, I told her she could continue. And yes, why not? Not shy at all, she continued while massaging my penis.

After a while, she started putting a finger in my anus, still while she was masturbating me. It was amazing and frankly, quite pleasurable! I have wonderful memories of it. It was then, after doing some research online, that I learned there were other ways to achieve orgasm besides using a penis.

I also discovered that we all have a prostate , an erogenous zone in men . We can even experience orgasm there!

Is it disturbing to think that one can enjoy this part of the body?

Yes. When you're young and straight, you think that pleasure is limited to the penis and that the anus is only for homosexuals.

Frankly, my first experience in the bath initially disturbed me. At first, I even questioned my sexuality. And the most astonishing thing about it all: learning that the prostatic orgasm is unparalleled. It's the ultimate male orgasm . The complete orgasm!

Yes, the P-spot and prostate orgasm were completely new to me at that time. What a revelation…

Was this first experience with prostate massage a turning point?

Between the bath experience and this purchase of the P-spot stimulator , a few years ago, I multiplied the experiences: anal stimulation with my fingers or with those of old girlfriends, anilingus ... It was good but I still couldn't enjoy it.

And then I met my wife. We clicked immediately on a sexual level. We love to please each other and try new things.

"What a thrill! I think I even screamed! I've never experienced orgasm like that before."

Arthur

She also enjoys prostate stimulation . We find it refreshing and stimulating. This practice spices up our sex life by adding variety to the pleasures.

Finally, one day, we wanted to take things to the next level by buying a dedicated sex toy, hence my visit to your online erotic shop.

Tell us about your first time experiencing a prostatic orgasm.

That was less than a year ago... I wasn't a first-timer with the Explo P-spot stimulator .

I tried it alone, and as a couple. I was getting close to the goal as I practiced with the Explorer .

But I still had a psychological block . I was missing something, probably a lack of concentration… But perhaps also a bit of fear. Roughly speaking, the fear of being judged, a feeling of shame .

One day, my wife was in town, and I had two hours to myself, all alone, in peace and quiet. I was in my living room, more determined than ever.

I first tried to clear my mind. This time, I was calm and completely confident.

Then, I lay down on my bed in front of the computer and started watching an adult film.

Of course, my stimulator is never far away. I then thoroughly lubricated the area to begin stimulating my groin while masturbating. Then, about five minutes later, I was able to insert the Explo inside me, about 10 cm deep, positioning the head of the Explo towards the front of my penis to stimulate my prostate , a sort of small, soft bulge next to the rectum , for those who don't know. Of course, you have to go slowly, as always.

This time, my position was as follows: lying on my back with my knees slightly raised. I started slowly, but as the pleasure increased, I switched between modes and slightly more rhythmic variations using the sex toy's remote control.

After that, it all depends on each person's metabolism and desires. But for me, little by little, as soon as I feel aroused, I increase the pressure exerted by the stimulator head on the prostate.

Then, I let the stimulator do its work with its circular movements on the P-spot . All while masturbating, of course. Pure bliss…

This afternoon, I feel the desire rising again and again… And then, for a moment I completely surrender, I totally let go.

And then, poof, intense pleasure! What bliss! I think I even screamed! I'd never experienced orgasm like that before. Incredible…

What sensations are experienced during a prostatic orgasm? How does it differ from a penile orgasm?

It's an orgasm that courses through your entire body in successive waves. It literally electrifies you. The sensations are very powerful. It's as if you're possessed, in the best possible way, of course!

Prostatic orgasm is clearly more intense, stronger, more diffuse, longer and even deeper than penile orgasm .

Actually, for me, prostatic and ejaculatory orgasms aren't comparable. I'd perhaps put it on the same level as G-spot orgasm in women . If I listen to women, it's something internal, very intense, that really gets to you. Like with P-spot orgasm .

And besides, a prostate orgasm can even lead to ejaculation if I stimulate myself at the same time. It's hard to imagine the intensity of this orgasm if you haven't experienced it.

What does your wife think of your penchant for this practice?

Like I said, we clicked really well in that respect. She loves to see me enjoy myself . So, when I have prostate orgasms, she doesn't judge me negatively, quite the opposite!

Furthermore, for those who don't dare talk to their girlfriend about it, be bold, don't be ashamed. And for those whose girlfriend doesn't understand these pleasures, well, I advise you to seek a change of scenery.

Does your wife participate in fulfilling this fantasy?

At my level, it's no longer a fantasy, it's a specialty, an obsession [laughs]!

Because since that first time, I've had orgasm after orgasm. It's no longer a secret to me. Anyway, to answer your question: of course! Prostate massage can be done with two people. And you have to be with the right person, as is the case for me.

In fact, the Explo P-spot stimulator comes with a remote control. My wife loves taking control of my pleasure and watching me orgasm. A word of advice: encourage communication in your relationship. And above all, make sure you both feel comfortable.

What would you like to say to those who are curious but can't seem to take the plunge?

First, I would advise them to demystify the prostate and the anus. Stop thinking that anal practices are reserved for homosexuals.

Then, start step by step. Sex is first and foremost a learning process. We've all been there. Remember, for example, when you were still a young virgin, you learned through experience, always step by step.

Take the time to explore yourself. Start with a finger and stimulate this still very taboo area of the body. Prostate stimulation is a sexual practice like any other.

I finally tell them: dare! We only live once. Explore your body and your sexuality. And believe me, prostate pleasures offer incredible sensations.