How to make a woman ejaculate? Techniques and tips

Summary

Distinguishing between female ejaculation and squirting; All the questions you're afraid to ask; The 2 key steps to making a woman ejaculate; 3 types of female sex toys to promote female ejaculation; Conclusion

Did you think ejaculation was the preserve of men? Think again, during orgasm, women can also release fluids in varying quantities.

This natural reaction sometimes confuses some sexual partners…

However, female ejaculation and squirting should not be confused; these are two very distinct phenomena.

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Key takeaways from the article

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Ejaculation vs squirting : Female ejaculation is a discreet whitish fluid, while squirting is an abundant and transparent jet from the bladder.

Not all women can necessarily ejaculate : every body is different and relaxation as well as strong stimulation are essential.

G-spot and caresses : the G-spot, located on the front wall of the vagina, is the main area, often preceded by clitoral caresses and foreplay.

Sex toys as allies : curved, dual-stimulating or connected vibrators can help intensify pleasure and promote ejaculation.

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Distinguishing between female ejaculation and squirting

Female ejaculation: a poorly understood phenomenon

This odorless, whitish fluid has a viscous composition very similar to male pre-seminal fluid. It is secreted by the Skene's (or paraurethral) glands , located along the urethra.

This is a natural phenomenon that is triggered reflexively during sexual intercourse, just as in men. This is why this fluid is considered " female semen " even though it is not fertile.

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When a woman ejaculates, it is generally because she has an orgasm or because she is experiencing intense sexual pleasure . Small, successive jets of fluid are then visible coming from her vagina.

Ejaculation mixes with vaginal secretions, so it's not uncommon for it to go completely unnoticed. Rest assured, it's not automatic: you can bring a woman to orgasm without her ejaculating.

Squirting: between taboos and fantasies

Unless you've never set foot on a porn site, it's unlikely you've never heard of female ejaculation or squirting – which means "jet" in English. This spectacular fluid gushing from a woman's crotch is very widely depicted in mainstream adult videos.

Although squirting is a fantasy for many men, this physiological reaction often remains taboo in the intimate sphere, because it is likened to urine, which can lead to embarrassment or even shame.

Squirt is often confused with female ejaculation, which we discussed earlier. While both types of secretions are released following intense arousal, they are quite different. With squirting, the bladder fills with a clear fluid that is then expelled through the urethra in a continuous and abundant stream . This fluid is also completely odorless.

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All the questions you're too afraid to ask about female ejaculation…

What is the quantity of fluid secreted?

If you want to make a woman ejaculate, be aware that due to the small size of the Skene's glands (2 to 3 grams), secretions tend to be released in very small quantities (less than a milliliter), which means they aren't always detectable in the heat of the moment. A word of advice: don't focus on the amount of ejaculation, but rather on her orgasm.

However, squirting is unlikely to go unnoticed. Up to 150 milliliters of fluid can be expelled continuously, sometimes giving the impression of urine. Changing the sheets is often necessary after squirting. By comparison, a man ejaculates approximately 2 to 6 milliliters of semen during sexual intercourse.

Is it urine?

Is your girlfriend having an orgasm or is she peeing on you, that is the question! The clear fluid of female ejaculation contains acid phosphatases, zinc and prostate protein.

There is no reason to feel shame or disgust when a woman squirts or ejaculates: it is not dirty and it is completely natural.

Squirt, on the other hand, is composed of 5% uric acid and urea: there are indeed traces of urine in these odorless secretions. This does not mean that when a woman squirts she is urinating : the urea is so diluted that its concentration is practically zero. It can be considered almost like water.

It's time to relax: no, your girlfriend isn't peeing on you. There's no reason to feel shame or disgust when a woman squirts or ejaculates: it's not dirty and it's perfectly natural.

Can all women ejaculate?

Unfortunately, in 2023, science is only just beginning to delve deeply into female sexuality . Researchers all agree that it is possible to make a woman ejaculate; however, since every body is different, it is difficult to say with certainty that all women are capable of achieving this.

How does ejaculation occur in women?

It occurs in two scenarios:

during vaginal stimulation causing a lot of excitement and intense sensations;
during a powerful orgasm .

Relaxation is essential. Letting go and trust are two ingredients that help achieve this state of relaxation . Starting with a massage before foreplay is an interesting idea if you want to make a woman ejaculate…

Is this phenomenon systematic?

If you manage to make a woman ejaculate one day, you might not be able to the next. The reverse is also true. Conversely, some women almost always ejaculate. However, most of the time, this requires very precise movements and/or very intense orgasm.

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The 2 key steps to make a woman ejaculate

The caresses

First and foremost, it's best to "prepare the ground." Foreplay is a crucial step, sometimes even the only one you'll go through. Indeed, it's easier to make a woman ejaculate by masturbating her than with your penis.

You're probably aware that the clitoris, and especially its external part, is the most erogenous zone of the female body . It contains approximately 10,000 nerve endings: that's quite a lot! It will be very useful in bringing your partner to orgasm.

Start gently, with caresses, kisses, or licks on her clitoris to lubricate her vulva and gradually—but surely—build up her pleasure. Take this opportunity to explore her labia minora and the vaginal opening. You can also play with other parts of her body: her breasts, anus, etc.

Make sure she is thoroughly wet before inserting your fingers. If you experience any lubrication problems, use a lubricant.

The G-spot

To make a woman ejaculate, you generally need to find what is commonly called her G-spot, a highly erogenous zone discovered in 1950 by gynecologist Ernest Gräfenberg.

The G-spot, measuring less than 1 cm in diameter, is located approximately 3 cm deep on the anterior vaginal wall (facing the belly), an area connected to the internal part of the clitoris. You will recognize it by its thick, textured mucous membrane.

The best technique for stimulating the G-spot is to slide the last two phalanges of your finger into your partner's genitals with your palms facing upwards, then gently bend them, as if they were a hook.

To create additional pressure and intensify pleasure, you can press your other hand on her pubic area while you masturbate her at the G-spot.

And what about sex toys in all of this?

Just like your fingers, sex toys will be your allies in your quest for the G-spot! In addition to adapting to women's anatomy and providing pleasure, they also have the added benefit of fostering a deeper connection within a couple. Online and in sex shops, there's a multitude of sex toys in various sizes, shapes, and materials. Some even boast very interesting features: remote control, vibration options, and more.

3 types of female sex toys to promote female ejaculation

Curved vibrators

As we just saw, to make a woman ejaculate, you generally need to stimulate her G-spot. However, you can help by using a curved vibrator. Its shape is perfectly suited to G-spot stimulation; its vibrations, meanwhile, enhance the sensations.

Sex toys with dual stimulation

These sex toys are two-in-one: they consist of a clitoral suction device (for external masturbation) and a dildo (for vaginal masturbation). By using them, you'll maximize your chances of giving your partner an orgasm. She'll experience intense pleasure, both on her vulva and inside her vagina.

Connected vibrators

Vibrating sex toys sold with a remote control allow you to play with your partner's pleasure during lovemaking… You activate the toy yourself: you're in control! With connected vibrators designed for G-spot stimulation, you can heighten arousal through sexual frustration, and even make a woman ejaculate remotely.

How to make a woman ejaculate? What you need to know

The best technique to make a woman ejaculate is to stimulate her G-spot. However, every woman's sexuality is different. Fortunately, you don't need to make your partner squirt to take her to seventh heaven. Be attentive to her desires, have fun, be creative in bed, be patient, and above all, persistent!

Lucile Tizon

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