Long considered a taboo accessory, the male masturbator has undergone a true revolution in recent years. It is no longer a taboo object, but a tool for sexual well-being designed to discover new sensations and enrich your intimate experience.
It is within this dynamic that the French men's sex toy brand ONY operates. Far from vulgar designs, ONY, a specialist in male pleasure, breaks stereotypes with high-end accessories, sporting a sleek and elegant design.
Today, we're giving you advice on how to use a male masturbator. A 2022 study [1] reveals that 19% of French people report masturbating with a sex toy. Is that the case for you?
Key takeaways from the article
This article was produced by ONY, the leading French brand specializing in men's intimate accessories.
Prepare and lubricate: a clean toy, a charged battery, water-based lubricant, possibly warmed up for more sensations, and you're all set!
Explore and vary: start slowly, test different modes, rhythms and edging to maximize enjoyment.
Clean and store: Wash your toy after use, air dry, store away from heat and dust.
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How to use a masturbator: the key steps
Knowing how to use a male masturbator correctly is key to transforming a solo pleasure session into a transcendent experience! Following a certain protocol guarantees increased pleasure and the longevity of your toy.
Before any use: the basics
Good preparation prevents interruptions. Before starting, two checks are essential:
Hygiene
Check that the masturbator is clean. The inside of the sleeve must be spotless to avoid any risk of irritation.
Energy
If you're using an automatic model like the ONY Exa One, make sure the battery is fully charged. A failure in the middle of a shot is always disappointing.
The art of lubricant and perfect temperature
The common mistake? Neglecting lubrication. Since silicone or TPE does not produce natural lubrication, the use of a lubricant is mandatory.
It is essential to choose a water-based lubricant. Silicone lubricants should be avoided as they irreversibly damage the material of sex toys. For an optimal and hygienic experience, we recommend ONY quality lubricants, formulated to respect the texture of your toys.
Expert tip: Temperature plays a crucial role. You can warm up your masturbator by running it under lukewarm water (around 38°C) before use. This warmth intensifies the sensations. Of course, watching a sexy video can also help get you in the mood!
Another tip: don't hesitate to settle in front of a naughty movie to get yourself in the mood!
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Techniques for using your automatic masturbator
Start by stroking yourself while watching your favorite porn film. Once your penis is erect and the opening of the masturbator is lubricated, slowly insert yourself into the sleeve.
1) Start gently
Insertion is performed with the device switched off or in the gentlest mode. The goal is not immediate performance, but the gradual discovery of the sensations offered by the machine.
2) Explore the programs
Vibrations, pulsations, automated movements: each mode offers a different sensory signature. By varying the intensity and rhythm settings, the user refines their experience and identifies what gives them the most pleasure.
3) Playing with rhythms
One of the major advantages of an automatic masturbator lies in its ability to control the tempo. Speeding up, slowing down, alternating… this mastery of rhythm allows you to prolong the experience and enhance its final intensity.
4) The finale in the sheath
When you reach the point of no return, enjoy yourself in the sleeve designed for this purpose, for 100% intense orgasmic pleasure.
Bonus tip -> Edging:
Use variations in speed or modes to build close to orgasm, then slow down. Repeat to intensify the finale.
Enjoyment alone or as a couple: all possibilities are open to you.
The masturbator isn't just for solo sessions. In a relationship, it becomes a fascinating playful accessory. Your partner can take control of the toy, leaving you in an excitingly passive position. This can spice up foreplay or compensate for differences in libido, integrating the product as a playful third element in your sex life .
“Nearly half of French people (45%) have already used a sex toy with a partner, compared to less than a third alone (29%).”
Did you know? The idea that sex toys are mainly used alone is outdated: they are more often experienced with a partner. According to an IFOP survey[2] , nearly half of French people (45%) have already used them with a partner, compared to less than a third alone (29%).
Care and hygiene: preserve your pleasure object
A quality masturbator is an investment. To maintain its texture, rigorous care is essential. Silicone and TPE can become breeding grounds for bacteria if not cleaned properly.
Post-use cleaning: simple and effective
Cleaning should be done immediately after each use. Never allow the lubricant to dry inside.
1) Disassembly
Unscrew the casing from the section containing the rigid electrical mechanism. The section with the buttons and the internal battery must remain completely protected from water.
2) Rinsing
Rinse the sheath under warm water to remove any fluids.
3) Washing
Use a mild soap or a specific cleaner. To maintain perfect hygiene, ONY cleaning foam is the ideal maintenance solution to preserve your toy.
4) Drying
Allow the sheath to air dry. Ensure the inside is completely dry before placing it back in its case.
Smart storage and precautions for use
Once clean and dry, your masturbator should be stored properly: keep it away from light and extreme heat, preferably in a dedicated pouch to protect it from dust.
Beyond immediate pleasure: the real long-term benefits of a male masturbator
Using a masturbator provides concrete benefits to physical and mental health beyond simply relieving tension.
Impact on your performance and sexual fulfillment
Regular use allows you to better understand your body and your desires: by varying the stimulations, you learn to identify your point of no return, which helps to control ejaculation, while contributing to prostate health, regular frequency can reduce the risk of prostate cancer according to a Harvard study reported by allodocteurs.fr , and by promoting relaxation and sleep thanks to the release of endorphins and oxytocin during orgasm.
Let's demystify together: myths, realities and best practices
Misconceptions about assisted male masturbation still circulate.
Myth |
Reality |
|---|---|
"Masturbation makes you insensitive." |
False. Soft textures prevent loss of sensitivity due to excessive hand pressure. |
"It's for single people." |
False. Many men in relationships use it to spice things up. |
"It's addictive." |
Nuance. In a healthy environment, it is a tool for personal growth, not alienation. |
For a healthy practice, listen to your body. If you experience irritation, space out your sessions. The goal is to add enjoyment.
How to use a male masturbator: our conclusion
In short, knowing how to use a male masturbator rests on three pillars: choosing quality equipment like that offered by ONY, impeccable hygiene, and a carefree approach to exploration. If you choose the power of the Exa One, these accessories are tools for discovery. Don't be afraid to experiment to find your own sensory symphony. Your body is a playground where you are the master.
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