Pourquoi associe-t-on certains sextoys à des pratiques homosexuelles ?

Cette association découle de clichés bien ancrés et de visions culturelles complètement dépassées. Pendant des années, certains accessoires sexuels, surtout ceux pour la stimulation anale ou prostatique, ont été catalogués comme 'réservés aux gays'. Une vision très biaisée !Pourtant, le plaisir anal et prostatique est accessible à tous les hommes, peu importe l'orientation sexuelle.Heureusement, les mentalités évoluent. La démocratisation des sextoys masculins fait tomber ces stéréotypes un à un. Le sextoy pour tous, c'est maintenant !

La stimulation du point P est-elle une pratique sale ?

Absolument pas ! Cette idée appartient au musée des tabous dépassés. Le point P ou prostate est une zone érogène hyper-sensible qui peut offrir des sensations extraordinaires et des orgasmes d'une intensité folle.Stimuler sa prostate avec un sextoy dédié comme l'Explo d'ONY, c'est simplement découvrir une facette méconnue de son corps. C'est sain, naturel et totalement légitime.

Peut-on utiliser un sextoy seul et en couple ?

Bien sûr que oui ! Les sextoys ne sont pas des béquilles pour célibataires frustrés, mais des amplificateurs de plaisir seul ou partagé. C'est même tout l'art du toy : ils s'adaptent à tous vos moments d'envie. En solo, ils deviennent vos partenaires de découverte personnelle. Vous apprenez à mieux connaître votre corps, à cartographier vos zones de plaisir sans aucune pression extérieure. En duo, ces accessoires coquins pimentent votre vie intime.

Quel est le pourcentage de femmes qui utilisent un sextoy ? Et celui des hommes ?

Les toys se démocratisent à vitesse grand V et touchent bien plus de monde qu'on ne l'imagine ! Côté masculin, les chiffres parlent d'eux-mêmes : 47% des Françaises et 49% des Français ont déjà utilisé un sextoy au cours de leur vie [1].

Comment choisir son premier sextoy ?

Choisir son premier sextoy ressemble à une aventure excitante vers l'inconnu ! Commencez par définir vos envies. Renseignez-vous sur les différents types de jouets pour adulte qui existent sur le marché. Privilégiez ceux fabriqués dans des matériaux sûrs et faciles à nettoyer. Pour un premier achat, mieux vaut choisir un modèle simple et abordable, puis ajuster selon vos préférences. Enfin, consultez les avis d’autres utilisateurs pour vous guider et vous sentir plus à l’aise dans votre choix.

November 26, 2025

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Single, in a couple, straight or gay? The toy, the taboo breaker

No more clichés: these toys are becoming allies of pleasure for everyone, straight and homosexual , whether you are alone or in a couple.

Discover with ONY how these intimate accessories are transforming male sexuality, far beyond preconceived ideas!

Key takeaways:

A clear and seamless democratization : the use of sex toys has increased sevenfold in 25 years in France.
End of clichés : toys are not “consolation prizes” and are not reserved for homosexuals, singles or men in need.
Whether used alone or with a partner : 45% of men have already tried them with a partner, compared to only 19% alone. Adult toys allow you to better understand your body and spice up your sex life, whether alone or with someone else.

Sex toys: the preserve of the excluded?

Another misconception is plaguing the world of sex toys : the idea that they are a consolation prize reserved for the "left behind," for those experiencing sexual deprivation. This completely outdated view deserves closer examination!

Who actually uses sex toys?

The figures speak for themselves: 45% of men have already tried them with a partner, compared to only 19% on their own [1]. Surprisingly, this certainly challenges preconceived notions! Whether you're happily single, in a long-term relationship, straight or gay , these sex toys have only one goal: to enrich your range of sensations and spice up your intimate relationships. These adult toys don't replace anything; they simply add another dimension to your fulfillment!

→ Read also : What women really think about male sex toys

From taboo to trend: sex toys are breaking free

Gone are the days when these pleasure accessories languished hidden away at the back of a cupboard! According to the study reported by La Dépêche , the use of sex toys has increased sevenfold in 25 years...

This new generation embraces its desires and transforms what was once taboo into a genuine lifestyle trend . The French, whether single or in couples, are taking the plunge with increasing enthusiasm. This shift in attitudes is paving the way for a more uninhibited approach to sexuality.

Heterosexual vs. gay sex toys: stop the clichés, let's have pleasure for all!

Let's stop categorizing pleasures. It's time to deconstruct the persistent myths surrounding sex toys and embrace a more open vision of male pleasure.

More and more heterosexual men are using male sex toys.

While gay men were the pioneers in the use of sex toys , straight men are now catching up. Gone are the days when these sex accessories ( masturbators , P-spot stimulators, etc.) were categorized according to sexual orientation! Today, more and more heterosexual men are adopting these intimate toys to enrich their sex lives.

The figures speak for themselves: 45% of heterosexual men have "already used a sex toy in their lifetime," according to an IFOP study [1]. Male sex toys are therefore no longer bound by any boundaries and are becoming genuine tools for self-fulfillment for all.

→ Read also : How to choose your first sex toy? User guide

P-spot stimulation, a subject that still carries its share of prejudices

The pleasures of the prostate (often made accessible thanks to a The P-spot stimulator remains an area surrounded by many prejudices. The misconception that anal sex is exclusively reserved for homosexual men is deeply ingrained. Yet, prostate pleasure is universal, period.

52% of men claim to have already had an experience of anal penetration.

HuffPost cites an IFOP study[2] which indicates that a majority of men — 52% — report having been anally penetrated at some point in their lives. And 40% of them have been penetrated with a finger.

These figures show that these mental barriers have finally been overcome. Exploring one's P-spot with a prostate stimulator can offer intense sensations and deep orgasms , accessible to all men, without distinction.

FAQ: Frequently asked questions about male sex toys

Why are some sex toys associated with homosexual practices?

This association stems from deeply ingrained stereotypes and completely outdated cultural views. For years, certain sex toys , especially those for anal or prostate stimulation, have been categorized as "reserved for gay men." A very biased view!

However, anal and prostatic pleasure is accessible to all men , regardless of sexual orientation.

Thankfully, attitudes are changing. The increasing accessibility of male sex toys is breaking down these stereotypes one by one. Sex toys for everyone are now a reality!

Is P-spot stimulation a dirty practice?

Absolutely not! That idea belongs in the museum of outdated taboos . The P-spot , or prostate, is a highly sensitive erogenous zone that can offer extraordinary sensations and incredibly intense orgasms.

Stimulating your prostate with a dedicated sex toy like the ONY Explo is simply discovering a previously unknown aspect of your body. It's healthy, natural, and perfectly legitimate.

Can a sex toy be used alone and as a couple?

Of course! Sex toys aren't crutches for frustrated singles, but amplifiers of pleasure, whether alone or with a partner. That's the whole art of the toy: they adapt to all your moments of desire.

On your own , they become your partners in personal discovery. You learn to know your body better, to map your pleasure zones without any external pressure.

Used as a duo , these playful accessories spice up your love life.

What percentage of women use sex toys? And what percentage of men?

Sex toys are becoming increasingly popular and are reaching far more people than you might imagine! On the male side, the figures speak for themselves: 47% of French women and 49% of French men have already used a sex toy in their lifetime [1].

How to choose your first sex toy?

Choosing your first sex toy is like an exciting adventure into the unknown! Start by defining your desires. Learn about the different types of adult toys available on the market. Opt for those made from safe and easy-to-clean materials.

For a first purchase, it's best to choose a Choose a simple and affordable model , then adjust it to your preferences. Finally, consult other users' reviews to guide you and feel more confident in your choice.

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[1] IFOP study dating from 2017 for dorcelstore.com. The survey was carried out with a representative sample of 2,012 people, representative of the metropolitan population aged 18 to 69 years.

[2] Ifop study for LELO carried out by self-administered online questionnaire from August 25 to 27, 2025 with a sample of 2,000 people, including 959 men and 1,041 women, representative of the French population aged 18 and over.