15 March 2024

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Men and the quest for endurance: methods to delay premature ejaculation

Imagine: you're running the most thrilling marathon of your life. You feel the adrenaline, the crowd is cheering you on, you're about to cross the finish line... But, oops! You stumble just a few metres from the goal. Frustrating, isn't it? Well, the intimate life of some men can look strangely like this scenario. The quest to last a little (or a lot) longer is as old as time itself.

Step into the world of men and their quest for endurance. With ONY, discover all the recognised methods for going the distance and crossing the finish line in style!

Premature ejaculation: the surprise guest of the evening!

If you've ever been to a party where a surprise guest shows up and completely changes the dynamic, then you can get a sense of what premature ejaculation can feel like for a man. This unexpected arrival can quite literally change the melody of the evening. So, let's dive into this phenomenon to better analyse and understand it.

Why are some of us quicker off the mark than others?

Just as there are sprinters and long-distance runners in the world of athletics, the same applies to intimate performance in men.

The reasons can be many: biological factors, stress, anticipation, or past experiences. Some men may have heightened penile sensitivity, leading to a quicker erection and premature ejaculation. Others, on the other hand, may seek practical techniques to delay this ejaculation. Sexual intercourse is a deeply personal experience, and every man has his own "stock" of reactions and sensations unique to him.

Did you know? Between 20 and 30% of men are affected by premature ejaculation, and 60% of them would like to delay their moment of ejaculation[1].

While some men may naturally have longer control over their ejaculation, others may genuinely need external help — such as a delay cream or gel — to extend the duration of their sexual encounters. It is essential to understand that premature ejaculation is a reaction that can happen to any man.

A quick look at the reasons why this happens. No need to panic — it's completely normal!

It's crucial to remember that everyone is different. Premature ejaculation is a common experience for many men at different points in their lives. Anatomy, in particular penile sensitivity, can vary from one man to another, influencing both the duration of the erection and the moment of ejaculation. Furthermore, certain psychological or emotional factors (stress, anxiety…) can also affect sexual intercourse, causing premature ejaculation in men.

Rest assured, with the right understanding and the appropriate tools, it is entirely possible to manage and adjust this timing.

When the DJ ends the set too early… The consequences of premature ejaculation

Just like a DJ who ends his set while the party is in full swing, premature ejaculation can sometimes leave a feeling of something unfinished. It can have an impact on self-esteem, confidence, and even the relationship with your partner. But, just like the DJ has the option of putting on another track, there are many solutions and methods for managing this challenge and taking back control of the rhythm.

The path to triumph: preparation and sparkling tips for a successful evening

Self-discovery can be enhanced through pleasure objects specifically designed for men.

A successful evening, whether intimate or for a special occasion, always requires a degree of preparation. When it comes to prolonging pleasure and managing premature ejaculation, meticulous planning and smart tips can make all the difference.

Here are a few strategies to make sure your night goes off without a hitch.

From zero to bedroom hero: the secret is in the toy box!

Furthermore, a man's sexuality doesn't stop at traditional methods. Self-discovery can be enhanced through pleasure objects specifically designed for men.

The masturbation sleeves offer a unique tactile experience, mimicking the sensation of intercourse, while the blowjob simulators provide an enveloping and immersive sensation. If you're looking to improve your performance, using these different sex toys could have a positive effect on your stamina.

Indeed, repeated and regular use will allow you to reduce arousal on the day itself.

Let's see in what ways:

Gradual desensitisation

Frequent stimulation with a sex toy can help desensitise the penis to certain sensations, allowing a man to become accustomed to a prolonged level of arousal without reaching immediate ejaculation.

Learning control

By using a sex toy, such as a masturbation sleeve for example, a man can learn to recognise the early signs of ejaculation. Initially, he can learn to delay orgasm through practice. Then, he can apply this knowledge in a real sexual encounter.

Reduction of performance anxiety

Practising with a sex toy can help reduce anxiety related to sexual performance, a known factor in contributing to premature ejaculation. By training alone, without the pressure of satisfying a partner, a man can build confidence.

Stamina conditioning

Just as an athlete trains to improve their performance, a man can use sex toys to train himself to last longer, thereby building his sexual stamina.

Discovery of complementary aids

Some sex toys for men can be designed to be used with delay gels or other stimulation aids (oils, massage gels…). The combined experience can give a man a better understanding of what works best for him.

Enhanced self-knowledge

Using sex toys can also help a man better understand his own body and its reactions. This knowledge can be invaluable for improving self-control during sexual intercourse.

Pressure relief

Simply knowing that there are tools and methods to improve stamina can in itself relieve some of the psychological pressure associated with premature ejaculation.

Explore our full product selection to discover how to enrich your intimate experience.

The pre-game strategy: why getting a head start can change everything

Just as a starter before a grand meal can whet your appetite and prime your palate, preventive masturbation before intercourse can be the key to lasting longer. By "releasing" some tension in advance, you can manage sensitivity and reactivity at the crucial moment, giving the act itself more time and delaying the grand finale.

Natural techniques in bed to delay ejaculation

Have you ever wished you had a pause button for certain moments in your life, just to enjoy them a little longer? Well, in the intimate sphere, these natural "pause buttons" do exist, and you can use them to extend those precious moments. Here are a few techniques that, while not powered by batteries or electronic circuits, can have just as powerful an impact.

How to keep your mind occupied to delay ejaculation

The mind is a powerful tool, and distracting it can be an effective technique for delaying premature ejaculation. Think of something amusing, complex, or even completely random.

By shifting your attention away from the immediate act, you can gain greater control over your body and thus prolong pleasure.

The "Start & Stop" dance: learn to master the rhythm... And make pleasure last

Think of this technique as an intimate waltz. It involves stopping during intercourse just before reaching the point of no return, and resuming once the urgent sensation subsides.

It's a way of learning to recognise and play with one's own limits, which can help delay the grand finale and thus improve the experience for both partners.

Compression, the insiders' secret: a small gesture that can change everything!

A little pressure in the right place can work wonders. The compression technique involves gently squeezing the base of the penis or the frenulum just before ejaculation comes too soon. This trick can help delay the process, offering a little more time to savour the moment.

Pillow talk: communication, the first step towards prolonged pleasure

Finally, communication is the key to any relationship, including in intimacy. Speaking openly with your partner about your sensations and needs can not only strengthen trust, but also help to better understand and adjust the rhythm accordingly.

Often, simply knowing that your partner is understanding can reduce anxiety and help prolong pleasure.

The magic of products: keep the party going!

In the modern era, science and technology have cast their eye over almost every aspect of our lives, including our intimate lives. It is therefore no surprise that the market is full of innovative solutions to help men keep pace and prolong pleasure.

Here are a few products that are making waves in this area.

Choosing the costume: opting for armour for total control

The right equipment can make all the difference in any field. When it comes to sexual intercourse, choosing a thicker condom can also reduce sensitivity and help prolong pleasure. Not only does this offer protection, but it also provides better control over sensations, allowing for a longer and more satisfying evening.

The magician of the evening: lubricating gels

The games of sexuality can be complemented by lubricating gels available in stock on our website.

A warm or cold effect lubricating gel is designed to provide additional sensations during sexual intercourse.

Here is how these products can potentially help delay ejaculation in certain men:

Change of focus

The new or amplified sensations provided by this lubricant can mentally distract a man from direct arousal, delaying the point of no return.

Sensitivity reduction

A cold or warm effect gel can also produce a tingling sensation or slight numbness, temporarily reducing penile sensitivity. Reduced sensitivity can help some men delay the moment of ejaculation.

Psychological impact

For some men, simply knowing they are using a product designed to help delay ejaculation can have a placebo effect, where increased self-confidence helps them better control their arousal.

Thermal effect

Vasodilation or vasoconstriction (the expansion or narrowing of blood vessels) caused by warm or cold sensations can influence penile reactivity, although this response varies from one individual to another.

Varied stimulation

The "hot/cold" sensations can alternate between intense and less intense feelings, which can help manage the overall level of arousal.

The stars of the moment, thermosensitive lubricants: allies for managing ejaculation and setting the tempo

Other products, such as delay cream or aphrodisiac tablets, combine active ingredients with a natural approach to enhance the duration and intensity of the experience.

Like the conductor who sets the tempo for an entire ensemble, a delay gel can help orchestrate the most intimate moments. These products, often based on ingredients that gently numb, can prolong the duration of intercourse by reducing sensitivity, offering greater control and prolonged pleasure for both partners.

The combined use of a delay product and a sex toy for men can help manage the most intense moments.

Finally, for those who wish to add a spicy touch, experimenting with aphrodisiac products can offer heightened arousal.

Pulse One, the king of cockrings: a game-changer on the horizon

The world of sex toys is full of often overlooked but incredibly effective treasures. And among them, the cockring, or penile ring, holds a prime place! A true asset for prolonging pleasure, it aims to strengthen and maintain the erection while delaying ejaculation. The penile ring is an invitation to rediscover one's virility in a new light.

Allow us to introduce the Pulse One, ONY's latest gem. Combining sleek design with advanced technology, this cockring has been specially crafted for men looking to push their limits. By gently adjusting the pressure around the base of the penis, the Pulse One not only helps to intensify the erection, but also to precisely control the moment of climax. Its soft texture and quality materials ensure optimal comfort, allowing for extended sessions of pleasure.

But the innovation doesn't stop there. By visiting our website, you'll discover all the fascinating features of the Pulse One.

Why settle for the ordinary when the extraordinary is within reach?

Ejaculation delay: what to remember to prolong pleasure

Here, in no particular order, are all the techniques and solutions (natural or otherwise) available to consolidate sexual performance:

Delay product (gel, spray…): using a delay product can offer a solution for those looking to improve their stamina.
A pleasure object before intercourse with the Pure or Nomad masturbators, which train you to delay ejaculation.
A naughty accessory to prolong pleasure during intercourse (Pulse One cockring)
Anticipation tips for channelling desire: masturbating before a date, etc.

A memorable evening isn't just about one trick, but a combination of effort and preparation.

By adopting these tips and exploring what works best for you, every evening can be transformed into a prolonged adventure full of joy and satisfaction for you and your partner.

And as you can see, all is not lost! A man's arsenal for prolonging pleasure is like an overflowing toolbox. From techniques for dancing with the "Start & Stop", to the art of compression, there are methods that feel almost like magic for delaying the finale.

Then there are the products. A warm or cold effect lubricating gel can indeed play an essential role in modulating pleasure. These lubricants can add an extra sensory dimension to sexual intercourse. A warm sensation can increase blood circulation, potentially enhancing the erection, while the cold effect can provide a refreshing feeling, delaying the final moment to make the act last longer.

Furthermore, delay cream, gel, and spray act as a temporary solution to postpone ejaculation. These delay products have gained in popularity not only due to their effectiveness, but also their affordable price, making them accessible to a large number of men.

Delay gels in particular, like superheroes of intimacy, are here to save the day. Imagine these gels as dance partners who slow down the rhythm, allowing you to enjoy every note of the song without rushing towards the end.

And what about pleasure objects specially designed for men? It's a bit like having your own private gym to train behind the scenes. Sex toys become your intimate dumbbells, helping you to build your stamina for the main event.

In short, a man is like a DJ who wants to keep the party going. He has a few tricks up his sleeve, some magic potions in his kit, and even a few tips for keeping his mind occupied. It's a game of control, discovery, and communication with his partner, all aimed at prolonging the evening and making sure the music keeps playing.

So, let the quest for prolongation continue, with a dose of pleasure, discovery, and perhaps a touch of humour!