Male masturbation techniques: 12 methods to vary your pleasures

Taking care of your sex life as a man also means giving yourself permission to break the routine and embrace variety.

Many men stick to the same masturbation technique for years, often out of habit or convenience. But daring to try new practices, accessories or methods is opening the door to new sensations, renewed pleasure and a deeper understanding of yourself — isn't it?

In this article, the French men's intimate accessories brand ONY, shares with you the good reasons to vary your techniques, the accessories that can change everything… And of course, 12 inspiring methods to awaken your pleasure and breathe new life into your intimate moments!

What current male habits reveal

According to an IFOP study, 95% of men have already masturbated (compared to 74% of women), and 14% do so every day [1]. Yet despite this very widespread practice, many end up experiencing it in an almost mechanical way, to the point of losing interest or intensity. This finding shows just how much masturbation remains locked into a single pattern, when it could so easily become a space for exploration and renewed pleasure.

Changing habits and reflecting on your movements means taking back control of your pleasure. By breaking the routine, masturbation becomes a playground again — a space to enjoy yourself, feel good, and perhaps discover new ways to experience pleasure.

12 masturbation techniques to revolutionise your pleasure

Let's get straight to the point! Because sometimes all it takes is one change to rediscover a whole world of sensations — here are 12 masturbation techniques for men to explore your body in a new way, vary your pleasures and break out of the routine during your solo or shared moments. Want to go further? Here are concrete tips and methods to try right now.

1) The classic reinvented

The foundation of it all? The classic back-and-forth motion, hand closed or relaxed according to your mood. But even this universal movement deserves a rethink: play with grip strength, modulate speed, adjust pressure on the glans to transform habit into renewed pleasure. You can also focus attention on your breathing, prolong stimulation at the base of the penis, or bring the testicles into play for a more complete experience.

Changing how you grip, alternating rhythm, pressure or finger position is enough to redefine the pleasure of masturbation. We can't say it enough — use a good lubricant: it will multiply the smoothness of sensations and prevent any discomfort from friction.

2) The frenulum brake

The frenulum — the sensitive band of tissue beneath the glans — is extremely responsive but often overlooked. Take the time to stimulate it: circular movements, light fingertip strokes, alternating between slow pressure and more intense stimulation, always with a quality lubricant.

The benefit: this highly neuro-sensitive zone can, when properly stimulated, produce sometimes very powerful orgasms — quite different from broader stimulation.

4) Edging: the art of making pleasure last

Want to make pleasure last and amplify your orgasm? Edging, or "draw-back", involves bringing yourself close to orgasm, then easing off the stimulation before starting again. This control game builds patience… And often delivers an explosive finish.

The benefits are numerous:

Build up intensity, then stop just before the point of no return. Breathe deeply, wait a few moments, then start again: repeat as many times as you can. The pleasure rises, subsides, then builds back up to its peak.

5) In the bath or shower

The aquatic environment is well worth exploring. In the shower, let the water and its natural sound cover do their work. In the bath, enjoy the buoyancy, play with temperatures and test new angles of stimulation.

Try warm water to dilate blood vessels and relax muscles, or cold water to awaken certain parts of the body. Use a damp flannel, caress yourself differently: your skin responds to texture, adding sensations you simply won't find anywhere else.

6) Changing position

On your front, on your back, sitting or standing? Changing position opens up a whole world of new sensations. Lying on your back encourages total relaxation, perfect for letting go and unwinding.

Also try lying face down with your hips slightly raised: the pressure created on the penis recalls the sensations of penetration. Sitting or standing positions, meanwhile, engage more muscles and can intensify tension. The key: dare to vary, note what you enjoy… And do it again.

7) Boosting sensations with the family jewels

Massaging your testicles during masturbation can intensify pleasure by stimulating the nerve endings in this sensitive area. Better still, this kind of touch can also increase blood flow, making the sensations you feel more intense and longer-lasting.

A tip: massage yourself gently to avoid any pain or injury! 

11) The warm flannel

A warm flannel is a choice ally for a realistic, relaxing session: warm a flannel with lukewarm water (not too hot!), lubricate yourself and wrap it around your penis before sliding it up and down.

The warmth and moisture bring the sensation closer to that of intercourse, whilst relaxing the skin. Perfect for testing new textures and taking care of yourself, quietly, on your own.

Also consider suitable equipment, such as an ergonomic and easy-to-clean stimulator. (The Explo p-spot massager by ONY is perfectly suited for this, for safe and hygienic pleasure.)

Embracing a variety of male masturbation techniques is opening the door to a richer, more mindful and endlessly renewed sexuality. Sometimes it takes very little: just the courage to make a change, adding an accessory or trying a new position… And your entire sensory experience takes on a new dimension.

Bonus: the accessories that change everything

Opening yourself up to new accessories can completely transform your sensations and reveal a new dimension of pleasure during your solo moments. Let yourself be tempted by tools designed to enrich your experiences and break the monotony, for masturbation that never quite feels the same as before.

Choosing your lubricant: your pleasure companion

If there were one secret to elevating every male masturbation session, a good lubricant would win hands down. Too often overlooked, it makes all the difference: whether you prefer quick sessions or prolonged pleasure, adding lubricant optimises movement, reduces friction and keeps discomfort at bay, for a far smoother experience.

With the right gel, discovering new movements becomes natural and fluid, where dryness might otherwise hold back your creativity. It extends the duration of play, helps vary the rhythm and opens the door to new sensations. Practical note: water-based for maximum compatibility (especially with sex toys), silicone-based for those seeking unmatched, long-lasting glide.

Incorporating lubricant into your routine is probably one of the most accessible and effective ways to boost pleasure and explore different masturbation techniques, whether solo or with a partner.

Exa One by ONY: the next-generation automatic masturbator

Want to push your limits? The automatic masturbator Exa One by ONY offers a fresh perspective on male pleasure. With its 9 blowjob modes and 9 thrusting modes, this premium sex toy adapts to every mood — whether you're in the mood for something gentle or craving something more intense. 

Thanks to its innovative technology, it offers a variety of experiences no hand can match — perfect for experimenting, having fun, prolonging orgasm and enriching your pleasure as your desires evolve.

It's the ideal companion for those who want to explore new masturbation alternatives without any compromise on comfort or quality

Nomad by ONY: the premium stroker that goes everywhere with you

Who said pleasure couldn't be portable and refined? With Nomad by ONY, the premium stroker crafted for the modern man, you enjoy a realistic, elegant and discreet experience at every moment. Designed with premium materials, it offers a soft touch, an enveloping sensation and respects each man's anatomy, for natural, intensely pleasurable sensations.

Its compact, ergonomic shape means it slips in anywhere — a drawer or a suitcase. Easy to clean, it's always ready for your intimate moments, with no constraints or tedious preparation. 

Pulse One by ONY: the magic ring that makes you vibrate!

Nothing spices up your intimate moments quite like the Pulse One by ONY, the vibrating cock ring that changes everything. Placed at the base of the penis, it helps achieve firmer, longer-lasting erections while delaying ejaculation to prolong pleasure. But there's more: its customisable vibrations stimulate both the penis and its surrounding erogenous zones, multiplying sensations and pushing your usual limits further.

Easy to adjust, the Pulse One fits just as well into a solo routine as a shared one. It's a powerful companion for exploring different responses to stimulation, rediscovering your body and turning every moment into a genuine sensory adventure...